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  • 010.3 Review: The Residences – Sejun

    Hello, this is BMM – Sawng.

    Shop: The Residence at Sala Daeng
    Date: August 2026
    Therapist: Sejun
    Massage Course: 90 Minutes Oil Aromatherapy
    Cost: 1590 Baht
    Tips: 2000 Baht

    To know more about getting to The Residence and the preparation for a massage service at The Residence, please read our Introduction: The Residence post for more information. 🙂 

    When Sejun was first introduced to The Residences, he did create a small commotion in the massage lover community. People were wondering if Sejun was Korean, or Thai. BMM – Taeng Mo did a little snooping and discovered that Sejun was, in fact, Thai.

    Upon arrival at The Residences, I was pleasantly surprised by Sejun’s look. Based on his appearance, he can certainly pass off as a Korean. Sejun, as his work name, is a very smart marketing choice. Sejun is very handsome and does look like a K-Pop idol. He sports a typical Korean K-pop idol hairstyle too.

    Sejun is a blind box at The Residences, meaning that he does not reveal his face in The Residences promotional materials. For Sejun, it certainly did work in his favour as his name created the hype for people to want to try him out. He certainly belongs to the category of rare happy blind box opening instead of a disappointment. 

    When Sejun approached me with my welcome drink, I could already see that he had the face of a K-pop idol and the body of a demon. His muscles were already budging out of his intentionally undersized shirt. 

    Sejun was a man of few words. He did not speak much through the massage session and I could not ascertain his command of English. This quietness (or shyness) from Sejun can be perceived as a form of distance to some people. If you are uncomfortable with silence, Sejun may not be the right therapist for you. However, if you are someone who is not chatty and enjoys silence, Sejun will be a great choice of therapist for you. 

    Sejun starts off the massage with the standard The Residences training, placing a warm towel on your foot to clean it, then repeating the process for your other foot. With most new therapists, I will request for a medium massage pressure to ascertain his strength for my readers. With Sejun, his medium was definitely medium pressure.

    Sejun massage had a lot of relaxing long strokes and his massage concentrated heavily on the upper body. I guessed that for a 90 minute duration massage, about 50 to 60 minutes was spent on your upper body. There was minimal attention given to the lower body.

    While the massage was on-going. He was very professional with his massage and did not incorporate sensuality into his massage technique.

    Nearing the end of the massage, he did ask if I wanted something special. I asked what specials he was good at. He offered body to body massage for a 2000 Baht tip. The body to body massage itself is already worth the 2000 Baht tip. What made it even better was that Sejun was the one doing it. You could feel his muscles rubbing against yours and by the end of it, we laid side by side, enjoying each other’s companionship in silence. The kind of silence that is actually enjoyable and relaxing.

    On a personal note, Korean looking men are not really guys that I do find attractive. Objectively speaking, Sejun is a very handsome man with very good muscles. I will highly recommend Sejun if you are looking for a Korean looking massage therapist who is good. Will I repeat Sejun again? Probably not, as he is not the man I will feel horny for. 

    Do note that my personal experience with Sejun may differ from yours. You may have a better experience than I have had. If you have engaged with Sejun and would like to share your experience with me, please feel free to reach out to me via an email or with a Discord message. 

  • 010.2 Review: The Residences – Lica

    Hello, this is BMM – Sawng.

    Shop: The Residence at Sala Daeng
    Date: August 2026
    Therapist: Lica
    Massage Course: 90 Minutes Oil Aromatherapy
    Cost: 1590 Baht
    Tips: 2000 Baht

    To know more about getting to The Residence and the preparation for a massage service at The Residence, please read our Introduction: The Residence post for more information. 🙂 

    When Lica approached me with my welcome drink, I was glad that he looked exactly like the photograph he used in The Residences promotional materials. Furthermore, with some sleuthing, we found his Instagram account and he does look the same as per his Instagram photographs.

    Lica is about 170cm to 175cm tall, with fair skin tone and good complexion. He is very lean with definite abs. His pecs are also big and sexy. He may not be as thick and huge as other therapists in The Residences, but his leanness and low body fat does make his physical body very attractive and appealing.

    Lica had basic conversational English and he could express his thoughts into English without hesitation. If you prefer an English speaking therapist, Lica can be your choice of consideration.

    As per all Residences massages, the therapist will place a warm towel on your feet to clean them first. By default, I request for medium strength for all new therapists to gauge what their medium strength is for my readers. Lica’s medium is indeed medium, neither too light nor too heavy. Good for people who are starting out in massages. However, if you like a stronger massage, do request for a strong pressure instead. 

    Lica’s execution of his massage technique is the basic version of how The Residences trains their therapists. The flow of his massage style mimics the standard The Residences, Klover and History of Massage training. He does put in extra effort to execute long strokes that calms and relaxes your mind, with increased pressure on bigger muscle groups.

    Throughout the massage, the chemistry between Lica and I was great. He often praised my looks while I thought he was really cute. We had a nice positive vibe before he popped the question of a happy ending.

    I asked him to take everything off and he quoted 2000 Baht for it. I agreed. As I played with his body, he suddenly oiled up his belly. For veteran massage go-ers, you know what this means. It means that Lica was getting ready to give me a body to body massage.

    Lica’s body to body massage was above average and we did tease each other till we both almost reached our point of no return. However, as both of us wanted to reserve our horniness, we did not assist each other in reaching and surpassing the point of no return. 


    The difference between Lica and my previous massage therapist Dave was totally opposite end of the spectrum. Lica was totally into me and I was totally into him too. Therefore, the massage experience between Lica and I was very enjoyable.

    However, will I repeat Lica again? Probably not. I will want to try other therapists and there are better therapists in The Residences to repeat for me.

    Do note that my personal experience with Lica may differ from yours. You may have a better experience than I have had. If you have engaged with Lica and would like to share your experience with me, please feel free to reach out to me via an email or with a Discord message. 

  • 010. August 2026

    Hello everyone, I (BMM – Sawng) went to Bangkok from 8 to 12 August, taking advantage of the long weekend in Singapore to rest in Bangkok. I was joined by BMM – Ari for the full duration, while BMM – Taeng Mo joined from 9 to 12 August. BMM – Power Ranger felt FOMO and made an impromptu decision to join us from 8 to 10 August.

    The places I visited on this trip are, 

    • Dream Boys, 
    • The Residences at Sala Daeng, and
    • Olivia Massage.

    For this trip, I have intentionally reduced the number of places to visit while increasing the frequency to the shops listed above. 

    The therapists and boys that I have engaged on this trip are, 

    • Dave (The Residences at Sala Daeng),
    • Khun New Boy (Dream Boys)
    • Khun C (freelancer),
    • Lica (The Residences at Sala Daeng), and
    • Sejun (The Residences at Sala Daeng).

    Prior to departure, I shortlisted the following therapists from The Residences, 

    • Dave, 
    • Lica,
    • Sejun, 
    • Arco, and
    • Captain. 

    My priority was Captain -> Sejun -> Dave -> Lica -> Arco. Captain was first as he had the most limited slots, followed by Sejun. Dave, Lica and Arco had more slots than the former 2 which made booking for them much easier.

    Once I confirmed with The Residences LINE admin that Captain was not working on the dates that I was there, I immediately asked for Sejun’s availability. I needed to know what the magic Sejun had which led to him being constantly fully booked. Thankfully, I managed to secure a slot with him.

    Dave and Arco were recommended to me by my readers while Lica was someone whom I thought was really cute and wanted to try him out. I picked Dave over Arco for this trip as Dave’s pictures were more captivating than Arco’s. I settled Dave’s booking then proceeded to book Lica’s slot. 

    8 August 2026

    After clearing immigration and checking into my hotel, I had a quick shower and cleaned myself for my first massage appointment. I had scheduled to meet Dave (The Residences) at 4pm. At about 3:20pm, I booked a GrabBike and went over to The Residences.

    As I was slightly early, I waited downstairs till it was about 3:45pm before heading upstairs to level 4. When Dave came out to greet me with the welcome drink, I sighed internally. Dave, being a blindbox, was not my type. Furthermore, I could tell from his face that he was no longer lean. The photographs of him being super lean featured in The Residences therapist photograph album must have been a little dated.

    While the massage was on-going, it was quite comfortable and relaxing. I almost dozed off two to four times. That was how relaxing Dave’s massage was. However, when it came to the special, it was rather lacklustre. I could sense that I was not Dave’s type and Dave could probably sense that he was not my type either.

    I will still be fair to Dave and write a review about him. It is just that, sometimes, chemistry between the therapist and the customer matters too. If you do not vibe with your therapist or your therapist does not vibe with you, the encounter you have may not be as eventful.

    We are all humans. We all have preferences and a personality. This is why, for all my reviews and blog entries, I always specify that different people will encounter different levels of service received. It is just a very human thing. There is nothing good, bad, right, or wrong about it. It’s just how things are.

    After this rather disappointing event, combined with the lack of appetite, I told BMM – Power Ranger that I just wanted to eat something simple around our hotels and we settled for Japanese curry rice and McDonalds. Yes, we had 2 meals back-to-back.

    We rested a while in our individual hotels after our meal, freshened up and went over to meet BMM – Ari at Dream Boys. For today, all three of us have made arrangements. BMM – Power Ranger and I have pre-booked our boys at Dream Boys while BMM – Ari opted to import a boy from Moonlight to Dream Boys.

    We opened a bottle of Malibu (I like rum) for myself and BMM – Power Ranger, while BMM – Ari finished his remaining bottle of whiskey with his boy. We interacted with our boys, with each other and partied the night away. Soon, Dream Boys was about to close and we settled our bill, parted ways to our own hotel. 

    The boy I picked shall be nicknamed Khun New Boy, shortened to Khun NB. I am currently going to gatekeep his name and number as I really do enjoy my time with him. Till the day I get bored of him, or some tension arises between us, I will then reveal his identity.

    Khun NB was someone I had my sights on since my June trip. During then, I saw him and was like, DAMN, he is totally my type. When I wanted to signal him to come down to sit with me, another manager beat me to it. He ended up going off with that customer and not returning. I was a little disappointed. Fate then had it that I managed to get acquainted with him during that trip. Yet, I did not manage to bring him back to my hotel room due to me not feeling up to it in June.

    On my July trip, I texted him to meet him, but he mentioned that he had to return to his hometown to visit his family. We then decided that it’ll be better that we meet up in August, which was this trip.

    Finally, I managed to meet up with him and brought him back to my room. My nonchalance and reticent face did invoke many “are you okay?” from him and I had to assure him that I was feeling good with him. Because of this, there were many check-ins from him to ensure that I was alright. I guess I appreciated that. He was a professional. He wanted to make sure I was feeling comfortable and at ease around him. I was.

    While his oar was not particularly large as compared to other boys, he definitely had the technique nailed down. He could rag doll me, which was something I am quite fond of.

    With some alcohol in his system, he was not able to sustain his hardness to reach his destination. We decided to row our oars and sail in our boat individually to reach our destination. Despite all these, I genuinely enjoyed his company and liked the way he and I communicated with each other.

    Him not being able to reach his destination while rowing my boat did get to him. I told him that I was going to Dream Boys the next day. He asked if I would pick him again, I said I would. He then replied that it was okay if I did not, cause his performance today was not up to par. I reassured him that such things are common and acceptable to me. He made me promise to him that I would pick him tomorrow at Dream Boys and I made a pinky promise with him.

    He acknowledged my promise with him and he went back home. 

    9 August 2026

    BMM – Ari has a favourite restaurant, Saneh Jaan. He requested BMM – Power Ranger and I to meet up with him for lunch. Knowing that we are super casual dressed down folks, BMM – Ari reminded us to dress up for the Michelin starred restaurant. We did and we enjoyed our meal.

    The reason why we would return to Dream Boys again tonight after last night’s adventure was because BMM – Taeng Mo was arriving and he wanted to meet his boy at Dream Boys.

    With such a huge gap between lunch and meeting them at Dream Boys at 10pm, I already made plans with Khun C to meet up with him. Khun C has been a fabulous sailor with his huge oar. We met up at my hotel and he rowed my boat. We both were exhausted after that and we took a nap. The nap superseded our plans to go to an onsen together to relax.

    I was glad that Khun C managed to relax too, as he is not someone in the industry. He has a normal day to day job which is quite mentally and physically demanding on him. This is why I suggested we go to an onsen together.

    I did initially want to bring Khun C to Nobu Bangkok, but he was a little undressed despite me telling him to dress up. I then canceled the reservation and decided to go to Mo Mo Paradise instead. Oh boy, Mo Mo Paradise is delicious and the food quality is very good at its price point. I dare say, it beats Haidilao, being similar in concept. 

    After eating, we bade farewell to each other and I made my way over to Dream Boys to find Khun NB. 

    When I reached Dream Boys, I could not see Khun NB at all. I was a little puzzled as we did make a promise to each other. I texted him to tell him I had arrived at Dream Boys and asked where he was. He told me that he was outside of the shop and will be returning to the shop to see me.

    Turns out, when he arrived at work at about 9pm, he did not see me. He assumed that I was not going to be there and he was afraid of texting me. He was not confident that I would keep my promise. As it happened, another customer wanted to bring him out and he accompanied the customer out. Upon finishing and seeing my text, he came back to the shop to accompany me. He apologised to me and explained the situation.

    I was okay with his explanation and did not pursue any further. It did not bother me that I was going to be the second boat he was with today, because deep down, I knew that for today, I was going to row his boat. With him expressing that he could either be the sailor or the boat, I wanted to try to be his sailor for the night.

    After he reached my room, I expressed interest in sailing his boat. He was a little apprehensive at first and told me that he was not very good at it. I told him that it was okay and we shall see how far we can sail together in his boat.

    As expected, he tried his best to fulfil his role but he tapped out. I guess he just did not have much experience being rowed. I was just a little disappointed, but not too much as I just wanted to see how far I can go with him.

    We then laid on the bed together, chatted with each other and enjoyed each other’s company. Soon, I felt sleepy and told him that for tomorrow, I had plans at night which meant that I could not meet him at Dream Boys. I told him that I will be looking for him the day after tomorrow and he agreed.

    This time, I made sure to specify to him that I would be there to meet him. No more confusions or ungrounded insecurities. He fully understood and we parted ways. 

    10 August 2026
    After waking up, I rummaged through my luggage and saw the gifts I bought for Khun C still in my luggage. Oh god. I texted Khun C to let him know that his gifts from Singapore were still with me. We made arrangements to meet up the next day. It was a little sad for me to see that I had forgotten the gifts, as I wanted to have dinner with Khun NB tomorrow instead. Nonetheless, giving Khun C the souvenirs from Singapore was more important.

    BMM – Taeng Mo texted me to let me know that he was awake and we proceeded to McDonalds for brunch. We chatted a little then I went back to my hotel to prepare for my massage appointment with Lica (The Residences).

    Lica, as compared to Dave, is two totally different experiences. The chemistry between Lica and I was great. Lica is about 170cm to 175cm tall, with fair complexion. The massage was good and we had body to body massage. I will detail an in-depth review of Lica later on.


    Having spare time before my dinner, I decided to go to Olivia Massage for a 90 minute leg massage. I always do a 90 minute leg massage as I feel like 30 minutes or even 60 minutes is too short. For leg massages at most massage shops, you are generally unable to select your own therapist. Though, you may verbalise your preference for a male or female staff. The staff are rostered to ensure that everyone has a fair share of work.

    For this massage session, my therapist was not as good as compared to my previous therapist. There were just many little misses that compounded up to a slightly not-so-satisfying experience. Perhaps I could verbalise my suggestions for him to optimise the massage experience for me. But, I am just sometimes too passive for all these suggestions. Hopefully, my next session with Olivia will be better.

    I then headed over to Siam Discovery for our must-eat restaurant of the trip, Kungthong Seafood Restaurant. BMM – Ari, BMM – Taeng Mo and his boy and our mutual Thai language classmate joined me for dinner. My Thai language classmate told me that prior to meeting us, he engaged Nigel (The Residences) for a massage session and it was a great experience. I will try to make an appointment with Nigel for my next trip.

    My Thai language classmate always wanted to experience how we BMM members experience Bangkok, so he requested us to bring him to a Go Go bar. In my opinion, Jupiter does have the best performances as compared to the other Go Go bars, so we went over.

    Mondays are generally the least busy day of the week for Go Go bars and the amount of customers reflects that. There were only a few other people at the bar. The boys were few too, with less than 20 of them available, out of which, only 2 were gays.

    It was a very disappointing experience for me as I am inclined to interact with gay boys more than straight boys. Do not get me wrong, some straight boys are able to deliver. They can interact with as much, or even more, passion as compared to gay boys. But, in my limited experience with straight boys, they usually pale in comparison. 

    With me at Jupiter was BMM – Ari and my classmate. BMM – Taeng Mo was supposed to be present with his boy but they fell asleep upon arriving back at their hotel to freshen up. 


    Halfway through the show at Jupiter, I felt kind of uncomfortable. The boys were not to my liking and the show was not relaxing me. I wanted to go elsewhere, I wanted to go somewhere familiar. So I decided to ditch my friends and told them that I would be going to Dream Boys. At this point, I was not sure if Khun NB was working. He was working for the past few days and perhaps he could take a break today from work.

    Upon entering Dream Boys, I seeked out the managers that usually serve me. I told them that I was going to just grab a quick beer or two and did not need the booth seats. After sitting down, Khun NB appeared before me and asked if he could sit beside me. How could I say no? I asked him to sit beside me and bought him a drink. I told him for today, I was not feeling it and I would not be bringing him back. 

    I assured him that I would do so the next day and we spent some time at Dream Boys together. As Dream Boys was closing, I tipped him and we said our goodbyes. I told him that I was going to eat with BMM – Taeng Mo and his boy. After meeting up with BMM – Taeng Mo and his boy, I received a text from Khun NB asking if he could join us for the meal. I agreed.

    We met again at Silom Edge, chatted amongst ourselves while I downed two small bowls of noodles. For Khun NB, it was 3 bowls of small noodles and one plate of rice with charsiew. He was hungry. I was happy that he texted me to join me, as that meant that his tummy was full for the night.

    Khun NB sent me back home on his motorcycle. During the trip back, he motioned for my hands and asked to place my hands on his waist. He always had all these small little actions which made me feel comfortable around him. We kissed goodbye and I went back to my room to sleep. 

    11 August 2026

    Upon waking up, I decided to go to Kaithong at the Central Embassy for lunch, solo. BMM – Taeng Mo woke up and wanted to join me so I asked him to come along. We ordered my favourite garlic pork, mushroom kailan and stir fried noodles.

    The food at Kaithong is really good. I always enjoy eating there. I could not order more dishes as I had a massage appointment with the always fully booked Sejun (The Residences). We took the BTS back to our hotels and I prepared myself for the massage.

    Upon arrival at The Residences, I was pleasantly surprised by Sejun’s look. BMM – Taeng Mo did a little snooping around and discovered that Sejun is not actually Korean, but Thai. Yet, with his appearances, he can certainly pass off as Korean. Sejun, being his work name, is a very smart choice. He was very Korean looking, very handsome, as if he was from a K-Pop idol group. Based on looks alone, I can understand why Sejun is so popular.

    What helps Sejun to be even more popular is that his body is very lean and muscular too. He had the complete package of looks and physique. His massage was not the best, but definitely above average. I will be writing a separate review entry on my massage experience with him so stay tuned for it. 

    Sejun is definitely worth the advance reservation and trying out once.

    After my massage, I went over to Siam Paragon to shop for groceries on behalf of my mother. After shopping, Khun C met up with me and we chatted about life. He will soon depart for another province for work, only returning to Bangkok on the weekends. I encouraged him to pursue his career. Deep down, I know, my time with Khun C will be limited and I should cherish all moments with him.

    BMM – Ari, BMM – Taeng Mo and his boy joined Khun C and I for dinner. I had to introduce them to Mo Mo Paradise and they all agreed that Mo Mo Paradise was delicious and should become one of our staple restaurants in Bangkok.

    Khun C sent me back to my hotel to retrieve his Singapore souvenirs. I asked if he wanted to row my boat, but he politely declined. He cited the lateness as the primary reason as he had to go to work early the next day. Khun C did not have private transportation around Bangkok, so he had to travel home via the BTS and MRT system, which would have taken him about 90 minutes to reach home. I respected his decision and bade farewell to him.

    I then proceeded to take a quick shower to freshen up and take a GrabBike to Dream Boys. Usually I will take the BTS and walk over, but it was getting real late. We were supposed to be at Dream Boys at 10pm, but by the time Khun C left me, it was 10pm too. I had to try to be there as soon as possible as our Thai language classmate wanted to join us at Dream Boys.

    After entering Dream Boys, I saw Khun NB on stage and waved hi to him. He smiled back and I motioned to him to join me at the booth seats. He immediately stepped off the stage to join me. Remembering that some alcohol would cause him to not be able to sustain his rowing, I politely requested him to drink non-alcoholic drinks.

    Halfway through, perhaps due to his job requiring to consume some of the client’s alcohol, he requested the manager to add some alcohol to his drink. He assured me that he was still able to deliver me to my destination with a cheeky grin. I allowed him to do so.

    We spent the remaining time at Dream Boys with fun, joy and laughter. Very soon, Dream Boys was about to close and we parted ways with BMM – Taeng Mo and BMM – Ari.

    Upon reaching my hotel room, I told him that I was not feeling up to any action tonight. I just wanted to be beside him, cuddle him and enjoy the time with him. We chatted while we cuddled in nude.

    It was such a comfortable experience and the amount of emotional value he brought with the companionship was indescribable. He then suggested if we could meet tomorrow before I fly, perhaps for lunch.

    I thought about it and agreed. I texted BMM – Taeng Mo to tell him to bring Taeng Mo’s boy and himself to meet Khun NB and I for lunch the next day.

    I then struggled with a decision. To allow him to sleepover or to sleep alone. On one hand, I did not want to see him travel 40 minutes back home, sleep, then wake up and travel another 40 minutes to meet me again. On the other hand, I am someone who really enjoys personal, alone time before bedtime.

    Despite all the good feelings that he gave me, I decided to stick to prioritising myself first. I apologised to him that I could not allow him to stay over as I really needed my solo time before sleeping. I told him that even in Singapore, I needed it. He understood. After he left, he texted me to reassure me that he understood and told me that I need not feel bad about sending him home. He’s such a great lad.

    I had a good night’s rest and by the time I woke up, he already texted me that he was on his way to meeting me. 

    12 August 2026

    BMM – Taeng Mo and I had the same flight back to Singapore. He decided to come over to my hotel to deposit his bags as we were sharing the same airport transfer to Suvarnabhumi Airport.

    With Khun NB’s text telling me he reached Dusit Central Park, I was a little caught off-guard. We did not really explicitly state the meeting venue. He perceived it to be meeting at the mall where we would have our lunch, while I perceived it to be my hotel where he would pick me up.

    This is what happens when you do not communicate clearly. I told him to stay there and I proceeded to check out. I ordered a GrabBike and within 5 minutes, I was at Dusit Central Park. We met up and went to eat together.

    Throughout the meal, our knees were in constant contact with each other. Even though it gradually became sweaty, I still refused to remove the skin-to-skin contact with him. Occasionally through the meal, I would stroke his sexy legs and smile at him. He appreciated the sweet gestures and would make a cute face back at me.

    No trip can end without a Thai Tea Bingsu. I suggested to everyone that we headed over to Silom Complex to, well, watch me eat a Thai Tea Bingsu and everyone agreed. After placing our orders at After You, I sat beside Khun NB and our knees continued to be in contact with each other.

    While we did not talk much to each other as I was eating the Bingsu, I was happy.

    It soon came time for us to head back to my hotel for my airport transfer. As the drizzle earlier stopped, both BMM – Taeng Mo’s boy and Khun NB offered to send us back on their motorcycles. We walked back to Dusit Central Park to collect the motorcycle and proceeded to the exit of the mall.

    Nearing the exit of the mall, we saw that it was raining. I whispered to his ear, “it’s okay, let’s go together to my hotel on your motorcycle.” He nodded his head. Upon exiting the mall, there was a short distance between the mall and the nearest shelter. We were hindered by a pick-up truck ahead of us which led to both him and I being caught in the rain. This hindrance builds up some annoyance in both of us. He then muttered something a bit loudly under his breath while we took shelter.

    I understood his annoyance as he saw that I was pretty wet. He offered me his rain-jacket and I assured him that I had a change of clothes and he needed it more. He smiled and put on his rain-jacket. We then continued on our way to the hotel.

    After dropping me off, he texted me an apology, saying that the pick-up truck hindrance caused him to be annoyed, which explained his louder voice and more direct tone when he spoke to me. To be honest, I was not expecting the apology. To me, that was normal human behaviour. Him apologising just made me realise how thoughtful he was. He wanted me to have a good impression of him, which I did.

    As I reached the airport, I reviewed in my mind of my interaction with him, being in person or through text. I realised that he is not much of a texter. Even when we are together, he rarely texts people, except for his family. Personally, I quite enjoy people who are not much of a texter as I am someone who is not a frequent texter as well. I often tell people, I will see and read your message, but I will only reply when I am free and available to do so. So, him not being a frequent texter suits my texting style too.

    It has only been one or two days since I have returned from Bangkok and the texts between him and I are countable with 2 hands. I appreciate that as we both have lives outside of each other. Till my next trip, I will maintain some text based distance with him, if that makes sense.

    My next trip is in November. It will be about 11 weeks till my next trip. If I am unable to tolerate this huge gap, I may make an impromptu trip in September or October.

    If you enjoyed my blog and would like to connect with me, feel free to reach out to me via Email or Discord.

    Till the next blog entry. 

    xx

    BMM – Sawng

  • 009.2 Review: The Residences – Koe

    Hello, this is BMM – Sawng.

    Shop: The Residence at Sala Daeng
    Date: July 2026
    Therapist: Koe
    Massage Course: 90 Minutes Oil Aromatherapy
    Cost: 1590 Baht
    Tips: 2000 Baht

    To know more about getting to The Residence and the preparation for a massage service at The Residence, please read our Introduction: The Residence post for more information. 🙂 

    Having arrived at The Residences about 10 minutes earlier, I informed the counter staff that I had made an appointment with Koe and they told me to take a seat first. Koe quickly came out to welcome me with the welcome drink and a change of footwear. Oh boy, Koe is a very handsome man. His facial features are very masculine and he looks very close to the photographs uploaded onto The Residences therapist’s photograph album.

    The Residences at Sala Daeng has updated their therapist’s photograph album to include the height, waist and waist dimensions. I picked Koe prior to knowing all this information and was pleasantly surprised at his height. He is about 180cm to 185cm.

    Even with his uniform on, I could see that the uniform could barely contain the muscles underneath it. While leading me to the treatment room, we made small talk and his command of English is pretty good. Koe is definitely more on the extroverted side, being able to chat and handle conversation with ease.

    If you like a therapist that has a tanner skin tone, Koe is definitely your man. He has a very healthy tan with a very good complexion.

    The massage itself was very good. I opted for medium pressure for the massage. His delivery of medium pressure leaned more towards medium-strong. If you like a stronger massage, Koe definitely is able to satisfy you. If you like a more soft relaxing massage, do indicate to him that you will want a soft pressure massage.

    His massage techniques consist of spot therapy for tight knots and long strokes for general relaxation. It was also a very sensual massage. He knows how to place your hands and his hands in different places for you to experience different sensations.

    That itself is not the best part. The best part is that, Koe has incorporated body to body massage into his default massage package. Yes, that is right. You do not have to negotiate with him about the tips or the special service you want. Koe automatically delivered the body to body massage to me, which was a huge plus. His sensual massage techniques leading into body to body massage? Yes, please.

    At the end of the session, I tipped him 2000 Baht and he was happy with it. Koe is a very strong contender for repeat sessions. Now I understand why he is constantly booked out and advance reservation of week(s) is required to secure a slot with him.

    Koe definitely had the face of an angel, body of the devil.

    Is it then advisable to make the effort to book him in advance? Yes. I will be looking forward to my next session with Koe.

    Do note that my personal experience with Koe may differ from yours. You may have a better experience than I have had. If you have engaged Koe and would like to share your experience with me, please feel free to reach out to me via an email or with a Discord message. 

  • 009. July 2026

    Hello everyone, I (BMM – Sawng) went to Bangkok from 11 to 14 July. This trip was initially a solo trip by BMM – Power Ranger and I opted to join him before my June trip was finalised. It was a relatively short trip, so I tried my best to pack as many activities as possible. As mentioned in my previous blog entry, I booked Sunji (History of Massage) and Koe (The Residences) and will be writing reviews on them. 


    The places I visited on this trip are, 

    • History of Massage,
    • Dream Boys, 
    • The Residences at Sala Daeng,
    • Olivia Massage

    11 July 2026

    Upon arrival, I cleared customs and proceeded straight to my hotel. I needed to rush a little as my appointment with Sunji was at 3pm. Upon arrival at History of Massage, Sunji received me and immediately recognised me. This is because I have been a regular of Sunji for the longest period of time before The Residences opened. After the opening of The Residences, I have stopped going to History of Massage as most of their therapists have moved over to The Residences. The only therapist that I enjoy left at History of Massage is Sunji. I thought it would be fair to give everyone a review on my most visited therapist, Sunji. 

    Sunji is a very handsome, tall man. When I first got to try out his massage, he told me that he learned his massage at a temple. Most temples that offer massage courses are pretty good. I had a really good massage and will be writing a detailed review on him later on. I had a very good massage and had a fun time catching up with him. 

    After my massage, I headed back to my hotel to prepare to meet Khun C. Khun C has officially entered one of the freelance boys that I meet regularly. After Khun C’s arrival, we had a light snack and proceeded to cuddle in bed. We could not do more as we had a dinner appointment at 6pm.

    At 6pm, we arrived at our dinner place, Nobu. However, we were deemed too under-dressed and were not allowed to dine in with them. That’s okay. It was honestly disappointing but understandable. I did not want to quibble with the staff enforcing the policy and left the building in search of another Japanese restaurant as I was really craving for miso cod, Nobu’s specialty.

    After eating a nice Japanese dinner, Khun C and I headed back to my hotel for some boat rowing. With Khun C, it is always a pleasurable ride.

    After Khun C left for his home, I contemplated on whether I should head to Dream Boys to just take a look. I texted BMM – Power Ranger and he told me he was going to be busy sailing so I just rested for the night. 

    12 July 2026
    In the late morning to early afternoon, I just rested in my hotel room as I was feeling slightly under the weather. When I felt better, I went to meet up with BMM – Power Ranger for dinner and we went to Dream Boys together.

    At Dream boys, we watched the boy parades and did not find any boy which interested us. BMM – Power Ranger left earlier and I continued to stay. Two boys did manage to catch my attention and I asked one of them to come down. He could not seal the deal and I asked him to return to the stage. As for the other boy, he too could not seal the deal.

    Perhaps it was me who was still feeling sick that contributed to me not choosing any boy to go back to my hotel with. It was quite a waste of time, a rather disappointing day. 

    All I know is that, for tomorrow, I will be having the highlight of my trip, a massage from Koe (The Residences). 

    13 July 2026

    Upon arrival at The Residences, Koe is about 185cm tall and looks absolutely dapper. His chest was wide and arms were huge. The massage itself was very sensual and I will be writing a review on him. He is definitely a must try in The Residences and I now know why he is always fully booked. 


    After my massage with Koe, I met up with BMM – Power Ranger at Central Park Dusit for coffee. We had a good chat till dinner time, then we headed to Krungthong at Siam Discovery, our favourite restaurant.

    On our way to Krungthong, we received messages from BMM – Taeng Mo that he is on his way to Bangkok and has landed. We were surprised, then again, BMM – Taeng Mo does have the habit of making impromptu visits to Bangkok. We told him to meet up with us directly at the restaurant for dinner.

    After our dinner, BMM – Power Ranger, Taeng Mo and I went to Dream Boys. With a disappointing night from yesterday, I wanted to bring back a boy at any cost. We came to realise that July is the lull period for tourism in Bangkok, therefore, there were very few boys at Dream Boys. Both BMM – Power Ranger and I could not find a boy we liked and BMM – Power Ranger opted to leave early.

    As for BMM – Taeng Mo and I, we stayed till closing. BMM – Taeng Mo’s boy suggested that we headed over to Good Boys to take a look, as they close at 2 AM. We entered, saw a few guys that I was interested in, picked a Vietnamese and we headed back to the hotel. However, due to multiple reasons, we did not manage to set sail at all. It was a very disappointing and sad experience.

    I learned that such encounters should not be forced. I should not have set myself a target of picking a boy for the night. Given the lacklustre selection, things just did not work out eventually. In the future, only if there is a boy that I am extremely interested in, then I will pick him out to set sail for the high seas together.

    I turned in for the night, as the next day, I had an early breakfast meeting with BMM – Power Ranger.

    14 July 2026
    Today is my last day in Bangkok. As usual, the pre-departure ritual is to head over to Bartel’s to get my tuna sandwich fix. After eating with BMM – Power Ranger, he returned back to his hotel to collect his bag and head forth to a massage shop to set sail.

    As for me, I opted to go for a leg massage and BMM – Taeng Mo joined me. While we walked into the massage shop, a very manly tanned skin lad ushered us into the shop and settled the administrative work for us. He then washed our feet and sat us into the massage chairs. Secretly, I was hoping that he massages BMM – Taeng Mo as he is totally BMM – Taeng Mo’s type.

    Indeed, he was BMM – Taeng Mo’s therapist! BMM – Taeng Mo was elated. We shared a few texts back and forth and he decided to pick him for a body massage later in the afternoon. I asked him to keep me updated as I had to return back to my hotel to leave for Singapore.

    After reaching Singapore, I received updates from BMM – Taeng Mo and he said he’ll be writing his experience in a review so look out for it!

    Conclusion
    With that, my short trip to Bangkok has ended. My next trip is coming up relatively soon in August and I have planned to go for a few massage appointments. The therapists that I have booked are Dave (The Residences), Sejun (The Residences) and Lica (The Residences). I will also be joining BMM – Ari to head over to The Prince Massage and Spa to take a look at their offerings.

    If you enjoyed my blog and would like to connect with me, feel free to reach out to me via Email or Discord.

    Till the next blog entry. 

    xx

    BMM – Sawng

  • 008. Guest Contribution – Sean

    Hello everyone, this is Sawng.

    One of our readers, whom I had the pleasure to guide, has returned from Bangkok and wrote a guest contribution to our blog 🙂 I have to thank him for taking his time and initiative to write a guest contribution.

    Enjoy the guest contribution by BMM – Sean. 

    Welcome to Bangkok – First timer
    I would like to be known as BMM – Sean, a masculine top with a strong male butt and underwear fetish. This part will be relevant later on, lol. I am very tactile and visual, which leads me to enjoying naked massage by male therapists. Male for male massage is not easily found in my home country, but thankfully, in my current work location, I can obtain them.

    Being situated in my current work location for the past three years has allowed me access to many male therapists, many whom I have coaxed into allowing me to be fully naked. This enjoyment of being naked while having a male therapist massage me has led me to research for male for male massages in Asia and eventually finding this blog.

    Thank you Sawng, for providing the useful information on massages, go go shows, and onsen reviews. These reviews have helped me focus on the must visit locations and sites.

    On my arrival day, there were some travel hiccups. My flight from my origin country got delayed which resulted in me nearly missing my connecting flight. My luggage did not make it onto the connecting flight to Bangkok. Therefore, my first day in Bangkok was spent miserable, dealing with Emirates for losing my luggage. As such, I could not properly devote my time and attention to getting a massage at The Residences at Sala Daeng.

    I went to The Residences at Sala Daeng on my second day without an appointment. Sadly, Son was pretty much booked for the day and I had an appointment with my bespoke tailor later on so I had only three choices if I wanted a massage immediately. I chose Mic and reserved Son for the next day.

    Review: The Residences – Mic
    Mic is a handsome cute guy, like a tiger with a gentle soul. He provided the welcome drink, exchanged my footwear for their in-house sliders and guided me to their spa room. As he left to prepare the massage oil, I took a shower.

    Mic covered the light fabric over my body and started warming up my muscles for the massage by applying pressure and kneading my muscles. He kneaded my glutes and used both his thumbs to massage my perineum, the taint. He quickly removed the light fabric and started massaging me.

    His massage was adequately firm but with a gentle flow across my body. His nonverbal communication skills are spot on. We connected non-verbally, as he was standing and leaning in onto my body, his hands flowed from my shoulders to my glutes. Although he did not explore my valley, his flowing hands washed over my entire body. When my hands were brought to the side of the massage table, I found that I could explore his body within my reach.

    Shortly after, it was time to turn over and establish any special request. One of my goals is to experience the body to body massage experience so I proposed that to him. I was a lamb, sending myself into the hands of a young tiger. 


    Mic had a nice toned body, with washboard abs. We escalated the sexual tension between us and he used his body language to suggest that he would like me to row his boat. Unfortunately, my mind was still exhausted from the travel disaster the day before. Furthermore, my stomach has yet to adjust to Bangkok so I did become the sailor he wanted me to be. There was no doubt that we both wanted to set sail. Next time with Mic, I am confident that I will be able to set sail.

    We then continued with whatever we were doing and we reached our destination together, with me savouring up his offering. 

    After my massage with Mic, I returned to my tailoring shop, IFC Bangkok, for my fitting. I initially ordered three custom fitted blazers, trousers, chinos and monogrammed long sleeved shirts, brown dress shoes and a belt. I also picked up some ready to go cashmere scarves and dress ties. While the fitting was on-going, the owners treated me to some Thai whiskey and advised me to upgrade to Bulgari fabric. I found their advice appealing and ordered a Bulgari suit, three more snow berry fabric dress shirts, as well as another pair of leather shoes and another belt. Together with my previous selected items, I requested all the products to be shipped back to my place of residence back in the United States. 

    Review: Jupiter 2018
    After receiving good reviews from Sawng on Jupiter, I decided to visit the famous Silom Soi 4 for Jupiter. I entered Jupiter slightly after 10pm and there were not a lot of other patrons yet. I was guided to a great viewing spot near the end of the runway. Being a highly visual person, my seat was considered the best in the house for me.

    Before the show started, there was a singer on stage with a decent range of voice, warming up the venue for all the action to come. Having read the many reviews of BMM, I have always visualised how the places are described to be. The venue was smaller than expected, based on some videos I have seen.

    I have to give some context as I lived in Las Vegas for over a decade. I have seen many gay underwear nights at Charlies, hotties in costumes at Luxor Sunday Fun Day pool events, been to Hawks bath house, or Emerald spa with naked guys in the sauna, steam room and onsen pool. The go go shows in gay venues at Las Vegas do not have full nudity. They wear thongs and you can slide tips down their butt or into their groin. I sort of knew what to expect, but I was not ready for what I saw at Jupiter. 

    Every now and then, in between shows, Jupiter will have a walkthrough parade of their go go boys. It was nice, many muscular straight boys with some nice bulges. Funnily enough, while I can appreciate a nice piece of meat, I tend to be drawn towards smaller packages as I can really focus on the size and shape of their butts even more. My attention was drawn towards three boys, each having their differing appeals. A couple had really nice butts and a couple had nice smaller packages hiding inside their briefs.

    After the first parade, the managers came over and tried to pressure me into having a boy to sit and drink with me. I was quite put off by that. 

    The first drag show caught me off guard as it was tastefully done. I am not in your face gay, proud to be one, but it is my business. I have done a couple of gay pride events but those crowds do not appeal to me. I just want to enjoy handsome male bodies. During this drag act, there were two towel clad dancers. I did not expect them to be naked behind the towels. I thought they had briefs on but shimmied those off early in their routine.  The teasing dance between the drag queen and the toweled dancers caught my attention. The toweled dancers’ bulges danced under the towel while they thrusted their groins outwards, providing a nice visual sneak peak to their oar. By the time the show ended, the toweled boys lowered their towels to reveal very sexy, nice round butts, which had my attention immediately. Furthermore, they were both well endowed through the sneak peaks. I was dumbstruck, as back home, they do not allow such visual displays. 


    The next performance was a solo act with a violin player clad in a waist type wrap, almost like a kilt, that revealed his huge member while dancing. Again, I am not a fan of seeing huge members, but I can appreciate when a good sailor sports a commanding oar. 

    Subsequently, there were a few more big oar routines but I was drawn towards one team member with a really round butt. My mouth was watering. With the manager’s constant encouragement and some alcohol, I finally acceded to their request. The manager brought three gay boys over for me to look at. I chose Tom, a 28 year old who has only been with Jupiter for about 9 months. Tom is charming, easy to talk to, not desperately trying to push me to take him out. Tom is Thai, with a touch of Japanese boy look to him. While he was not in any of the performances, he was pleasant to look at during his parade segment.

    It was getting past midnight and the manager pitched to me to take Tom out for a solo venture. I agreed to the take out fee and left with Tom to a nearby hotel for a 2 hour engagement. Once at the hotel, he stripped completely. He looked so handsomely cute naked. Both of us showered together before beginning to know each other more intimately. He had a nice toned body, was playful and sensual. I told him I had been drained earlier and was not looking to dock my oar but if I were to find him again, that would be likely to happen as I was drawn to his dock. His taste, oar and dock, were to my liking. Tongue work is my pleasure and I do not have any complaints from those that I shared my talents with, be it tonight or in the past. He was surprised at the amount of crude oil I expelled as we both reached our destination together, well aware that it was my second time of the day. Afterwards, we showered and parted with a hug. I returned to my hotel and slept well.

    Review: The Residences – Son

    Once again, your blog provided me with travel time tips, thank you. I arrived leisurely to the spa about twenty minutes prior to my appointment with the famous Son.

    When I met him, I was surprised by his height and soft voice. After the welcoming drink was served and all the pre-massage procedures were completed, he got down to business. One of the things that I liked about Son was his leverage. He applied ample pressure with gentle smoothness. He was not afraid to knead and manipulate my glutes, which is a huge big plus for me while getting a male massage. 

    I like to have my thighs worked on and once Son completed the warm up massage, he went straight to work. He oiled his hands and slid up and down my legs, onto my butt too. He found the valley and brushed it constantly through the whole massage session.

    Some therapists who venture into the canyon typically spend a small amount of time there, but Son kept returning to those walls and I was in massage heaven. Although I am a top, I like to have my canyon and docking area rubbed with oily fingers and the palm.

    Son then arched my thighs outwards and slid his gentle hands top and underneath my hips and thighs. I took the initiative to find his uniform covered oar after he held my hands against his amazing pecs down to his firm stomach. He is well put together, something I was not surprised based off BMM – Sawng’s description of him. 


    After turning over and massaging my stomach (which Mic did not do), it came time for any special request. He smiled when I replied body to body massage. His quiet voice asked me what I liked and what my role was. I had taken advantage of the BMM team telling Son that he had been recommended to me by a horny Singaporean. He assumed the appropriate uniform, or lack thereof, and came atop my body.

    I was amazed at his upper body, nipples and my God, the boy has a tiny butt. Almost too tiny for my liking, as I was afraid I would break him. His butt needed more meat, but I was not complaining. I grabbed his butt straight away. His body to body massage was sensual. He did not disappoint as both of us expelled our pent up horniness into a final release. He was shocked by my volume. I may not have the biggest oar in the navy, but my balls are a handful and sure produce a good volume. Lol.

    During the massage, we talked and he did some homework, asking Mic what transpired during the massage between me and Mic. He found out that I have done body to body massage with Mic and knew my preferences. He is easy to talk to and provided me with cultural insights of the difference of Thais originating from different regions. Son is from the Phuket region. 


    Conclusion
    This ends my Bangkok adventures for now. I know on my future trips to Bangkok, I will be ready to explore other massage shops and other therapists. Depending on who is still working at The Residences, I will decide who to try next. Some guys on my lists are, Non (Jey Spa), Oak (Jey Spa), Chok (S Sense Massage) and Bear (Glams Spa).

    I will definitely go back to Jupiter, but also venture into Dream Boys and probably Fresh boys to find some take away pleasures.

    Thank you for guiding me on my first visit to Bangkok. I was not disappointed and will continue to follow your blog for more stories and reviews. 

  • 007.1. Review: The Residences – Pete

    Hello, this is BMM – Sawng.

    Shop: The Residence at Sala Daeng
    Date: July 2026
    Therapist: Pete
    Massage Course: 90 Minutes Oil Aromatherapy
    Cost: 1590 Baht
    Tips: 2000 Baht

    To know more about getting to The Residence and the preparation for a massage service at The Residence, please read our Introduction: The Residence post for more information. 🙂 


    Pete is someone that is on my to-try list ever since I saw his photos published by The Residences. If you can guess by now, I genuinely enjoy muscular bodies. Even if they are blindboxes, I am more than willing to open them if their bodies are amazing.

    When Pete served me my welcome drink, I was pleasantly surprised that such a handsome man greeted me. His handsomeness came with a hint of boyish charm. His smile was very bright and mesmerising. Pete is slightly taller than 175cm and had a slightly tanned skin tone and fairly good complexion.

    As we walked towards the treatment room, you can see that his body was good through his shirt. He was definitely very muscular and sexy. As we arrived in the treatment room, Pete used English to ask me to take a shower and asked where I was from. However, I could not ascertain his command of English as he was not too chatty.

    After taking my pre-massage shower, I laid down on the bed and Pete placed a thin fabric over my body to cover my body. He proceeded to place some pressure on my body to warm my muscles up.

    When it came time to apply oil on my upper back, he pulled back the thin fabric to reveal half of my butt. This meant that while massaging my back, he would also focus on my glutes, which made me happy. Pete’s massage strength throughout the massage was medium strength. I will suggest Pete to people who do not enjoy strong massages. Pete’s massage strokes are long and relaxing.

    While working on the back, Pete maintained professionalism and had little sensuality attached to it. Only when he shifted the treatment to the legs then the sensuality started to kick in. It was sensuality done politely. You will not feel like he is rushing it or it makes you feel uncomfortable.

    After turning around, Pete amplified the sensuality gradually and very naturally progressed into the happy ending. Throughout the whole process of being led into the happy ending, Pete did not bring up the topic of specials nor did he negotiate a price for it.

    While the happy ending was on-going, I took the chance to touch his body with my hands underneath his shirt. Even without taking off his shirt, I could tell that his body was really good. The firmness of his muscles is probably the best I have ever come across in Bangkok’s massage industry. 


    By the end of the massage, I was very relaxed. Yet, deep down, I know Pete’s massage style was too vanilla for me. I needed something more sensual alongside a good massage. I wanted a good body to body massage, to see his whole muscular body and to worship him. Perhaps, I was not Pete’s type. Perhaps, Pete just prefers to give a vanilla massage. We will never know.

    But, what I know is that, if you are a first timer coming for a men for men massage, I think Pete will be a better choice over Steve. Pete’s massage allows you to establish a baseline for what a men for men massage should be like. In addition, him not negotiating about his specials meant that you need not experience the anxiety of negotiating while knowing what service to expect. 


    Do note that my personal experience with Pete may differ from yours. You may have a better experience than I have had. If you have engaged Pete and would like to share your experience with me, please feel free to reach out to me via an email or with a Discord message. 

  • 007.June 2027

    Hello everyone, I (BMM – Sawng) went to Bangkok from 20th to 24th June, accompanying my mother and sister. As I had to bring my mother and sister around, I did not manage to go to many places as compared to my previous trips.

    The places I visited on this trip are, 

    • Dream Boys, 
    • The Residences at Sala Daeng

    The Residences had recently hired two extremely attractive therapists, Koe and Sejun. Arco has recently transferred from Klover to The Residences too. These three therapists are on my to try list, however, their schedules and availability did not align with mine. I only managed to book Pete.

    I have an upcoming trip scheduled in July 2026 and have booked Sunji (History of Massage) and Koe (The Residences). I’m working on filling up my schedule right now. If you have any recommendations, please feel free to DM on Discord or email me. I would love to hear from you. 

    20 June 2026
    Before this trip, I was feeling a little under the weather and thought of postponing the trip by 1 day, as my mother and sister were scheduled to arrive in Bangkok on 21 June. I decided not to as I could get some rest on the plane and in my hotel room too.

    While I was on the plane to Bangkok, my friends, Ari and Taeng Mo were texting me incessantly while I was trying to get some rest. As I was seated near the galley, I was used to the cabin crew accidentally knocking into me. The lead cabin crew came to me and apologised for all these small little interruptions to my rest. I felt a tap on my shoulder. I ignored it of course, only for the tapping to be amplified in strength.

    I looked up and saw Ari! He made a secret trip to Bangkok and managed to sneak onto the same plane as me! He did not tell me, but told everyone around me that he was going. I was pleasantly surprised by him joining me on this trip to Bangkok. However, we did not manage to spend time together as his schedule and my schedule did not align.

    After landing at Suvarnabhumi Airport, I made my way to my hotel and texted Khun C to let him know that I had arrived at my hotel earlier than expected. I wanted to check if Khun C was ready to meet me, about 2 hours earlier. Khun C told me that he was hungry and wanted to eat something. We arranged to meet at Central Park Dusit to have a quick meal before heading back to my hotel. 

    Khun C is a freelance massage therapist that I have gotten to know previously. When I met up with him, his 180cm tall height melted my heart a little. He was charming, handsome and spoke some English. I brought him to eat some food then we headed back to my hotel room.

    Khun C was huge. His oar was thick. Very thick. It took a while to get used to his oar and he started to rock my boat. He was a good sailor. I enjoyed sailing with him. After we both reached our destination, we washed up together and he left, happy. I was happy too.

    As my mother and sister were only coming on 21 June, I had to make good use of my remaining solo time in Bangkok to ‘play’. I decided to go to Dream Boys to find another sailor to rock my boat.

    Upon reaching Dream Boys, the first show was going to happen soon so all the boys were on-stage, flashing their mega-watt smiles at whoever was interested in them. Number 47 immediately caught my attention. Before I could motion to him to come down to sit beside me, another customer got to him earlier and he went over to sit with him. At Dream Boys, it really is a game of fastest finger first.

    After seeing Number 47 go off with another customer, I had to look for a second choice. I sat and watched through the first round of performance. After the first round of performance ended, the boys who have yet to have customers returned onto the stage. Number 37 attracted my gaze and I asked him to come down to sit with me.

    Number 37 is from Cambodia, cute and muscular at the same time. We exchanged pleasantries. The more time he sat beside me, the more sure I was that he was going to sail my boat tonight.

    I told the manager that I was going to bring Number 37 back and we went back to my hotel room. When we returned to our room, we snuggled in bed and continued chatting. Number 37’s command of English is pretty decent. He is able to hold simple conversations in English.

    After snuggling for some time, I started to play with his oar and I was pleasantly surprised. Number 37 was not as thick as Khun C, but he was definitely close. Number 37 oar was nicer than Khun C as Number 37 had more length. That made him rowing my boat so much more pleasurable and enjoyable. While rowing my boat, he too ensured that my oar was well taken care of. We both reached our destination at the same time.

    After Number 37 left, I wondered if I would repeat him again. The answer is yes, but not on the same trip. I would definitely give him a chance again to row my boat again. I needed to expand my list of sailors.

    Do note that Number 37 and Number 47 are just Numbers assigned to the boys. If they have resigned and another boy joins Dream Boys, they can pick up the mantle of Number 37 or Number 47. To avoid any doubt, if you do wish to engage either Number 37 or Number 47, do drop me an email, or DM on Discord, to obtain more information about either boy. 

    21 June 2026
    I slept in till 12 plus in the afternoon and grabbed a quick snack. My mother and sister were scheduled to arrive at my hotel at 8pm. I realised I could sneak in a quick massage and went to book a massage with Tana at The Residences. After the massage ended, I went to wayfind the directions to Nobu Bangkok from Chong Nonsi BTS Station.

    My dinner appointment was at 930pm with my mother and sister. Soon, they arrived and we walked over to Nobu Bangkok.

    Nobu Bangkok is definitely one of the top 3 best restaurants that I have ever been to in my entire life. The view was good and the food was even better. I will highly recommend Nobu Bangkok to anyone who wants to have a good dinner. 

    22 June 2026
    In the morning, my mother wanted breakfast so my sister and I accompanied her to eat Khao Kah Moo (braised pork trotters served with rice). After which, we made our way to Big C at Ratchada and shopped for groceries and souvenirs to bring back home. We then made our way to eat Kaithong at the Central Embassy.

    After which, we made our way back to our hotels as we designated 4pm as our massage timing. My mother went for a Thai massage while I returned to The Residences to find Tana again.

    For our dinner, we had Everyday Mookata at Silom. Sadly, Everyday Mookata at Silom will be closing down soon and lovers of Everyday Mookata will have to go to their Riverside outlet to continue patronising them.

    I did not go out to a Go Go bar as I was feeling tired from being ill. I rested early. 

    23 June 2026
    My mother and sister joined a day tour to Ayutthaya while I chose to remain in Bangkok. I slept in till lunch time and grabbed a quick bite at McDonalds. After which, I headed over to The Residences for my appointment with Pete.

    Pete is a relatively new therapist at The Residences. His pictures provided were so hot and attractive. I will write in a follow up review post on him. Stay tuned to the next blog post featuring the review on Pete.

    After my appointment with Pete, my sister texted me to inform me that they had returned to Bangkok earlier than expected. I went to meet them up at Siam Paragon to shop for some groceries then proceeded to Krungthong at Siam Discovery for dinner.

    After dinner, I told them that I wanted to go get a quick foot massage as I wanted to relax. I headed to Wisdom Massage at Silom. While having my feet massaged, I was contemplating whether I should spend some time at Dream Boys before going back. 

    Upon reaching Dream Boys, the first round of the show had started and it was the Go Go Boys dancing on stage. I saw M dancing and M smiled at me. After M’s dance segment was over, I checked that he did not have any customers and invited him to sit with me.

    M is one of the first few Go Go boys that I engaged with. Him and I knew each other for more than a year and we have been on good talking terms with each other. The only reason why I call him M instead of his number is honestly because I have forgotten his number. 


    While drinking and chatting with M, catching up on what we have been doing, the manager told me that Number 47 was free too and had no customers. He knew I was super into him and insisted that Number 47 sit down with me and drink with me. There, I realised that M and Number 47 were good colleagues and the three of us chatted together, merrily. 

    After Dream Boys closed, Number 47 and M brought me to a Japanese place for supper and we had a good time chatting. After which, Number 47 sent me back to my hotel on his motorcycle. I was not feeling horny so I did not invite Number 47 up to my room.

    I rested and prepared to wake up early to join my mother for breakfast the next day. 

    24 June 2026
    As our flight back home was scheduled at 330pm, we had to depart the hotel at 1230pm. This meant that we only had time for breakfast before needing to return back to Singapore.

    My sister went to Bartel’s before and we agreed that Bartel’s will serve as a very good final meal to conclude our Bangkok trip. 

    After eating, we went back to our hotels to pack up and boarded the airport transfer to Suvarnabhumi Airport.

    The main priority of this trip was to spend time with my mother and sister over food, which is why we went to most of my favourite food places in Bangkok. For me to score a few boys, it was a very good bonus that I did not anticipate myself achieving. I am really glad to have spent time with my family, showing them what I usually eat in Bangkok. 

    For now, my Thai (Mis)Adventure ends. Till my next trip with BMM – Power Ranger, in July 2026. 🙂

    If you enjoyed my blog and would like to connect with me, feel free to reach out to me via Email or Discord. 

    xx


    BMM – Sawng 

  • 006.1: Review: The Residences – Steve

    Hello, this is BMM – Sawng.

    Shop: The Residence at Sala Daeng
    Date: April 2026
    Therapist: Steve
    Massage Course: 90 Minutes Oil Aromatherapy
    Cost: 1590 Baht
    Tips: 2000 Baht

    To know more about getting to The Residence and the preparation for a massage service at The Residence, please read our Introduction: The Residence post for more information. 🙂 

    Steve has always been on my to-try list since The Residence inaugurated. Steve can be considered as a micro-influencer on social media with about 50,000+ followers on his Instagram account. He frequently posts pictures and videos of him in swimming attire. 


    Steve is a very handsome man with amazing sexy tattoos. He is about 170cm to 175cm. If you like a moderately, tastefully tattooed man, Steve is definitely a high recommendation. Despite Steve not having the best body in The Residence, his body is still sexy enough. Steve also has a fair skin tone with good complexion. 

    Steve is not too chatty, therefore, I could not ascertain his command of English to be conversational or basic.

    After taking my pre-massage shower and lying down on the bed, Steve placed the thin fabric on my body to cover all of my body. He continued to place some pressure on my body to warm my muscles up for the massage.

    His massage strength was medium by default, with strokes that relaxed you. Even though Steve is not body shy with his strokes, you can feel that he does intentionally maintain a level of professionalism and decorum with you by trying not to intentionally touch your private parts for the sake of touching them.

    You can feel that Klover, History of Massage and The Residence has a fully fledged out massage training programme for all their therapists as Steve executes the default vanilla massage as per his instructions. 

    He does include some personal touch to his massage with the occasional teasing and sensual touch, but just a little here and there. When it was about time for the happy ending, Steve ramped up the sensuality and proceeded on naturally. He did not bring up the topic of specials, nor did he try to negotiate a price for it.

    Therefore, Steve is really a good choice for someone who is new to massage, or new to men for men massage in general.

    Steve is highly recommended as your first therapist. Following Steve, I will recommend Benten (Klover). After Benten, you should be good to go with any therapist you want. 

    Do note that my personal experience with Son may differ from yours. If you have engaged Steve and have received the same or different experience and would like to share with me, feel free to reach out via an email or with a Discord message. 

  • 006. May 2026

    Hello everyone, I (BMM – Sawng) traveled to Bangkok from 29th April to 3rd May, accompanied by BMM – Ari, Power Ranger and Yong.

    For this trip, my friends and I visited, 

    • Dream Boys
    • Jupiter
    • The Residence at Sala Daeng
    • Klover


    Going into this trip, I planned to visit my top 2 therapists, Son (The Residence) and Benten (Klover). Thankfully, The Residence and Klover have the schedule of their therapists published online, so I was able to book them in advance.

    This explains why the list of shops visited is lesser than previous trips. There were not many chances to explore new therapists. I also have been, fortunately, receiving recommendations from you, my dear readers, on therapists suggestions. I did try some of them. If you are a reader of my blog and would also like to recommend some of your favourite therapists, feel free to drop me a DM on discord, or email me. I would love to hear from you.

    29 April 2026

    Upon arrival in Bangkok, I checked into my hotel and immediately left for The Residence for my first massage appointment with Son. This is my third time with him and he is still as consistent as ever. I enjoyed my time with him.

    After which, I returned to my hotel to do some work. BMM – Yong arrived on the same day as me and wanted to try Jone’s (The Residences) massage. I decided to support his decision by going to The Residences with him. So, I booked Koff, one of the available therapists that my reader has asked me to try.

    Koff’s massage was pretty uneventful so there will be no review for him. If you are still curious about Koff, please reach out to me via Discord or email. 🙂 

    We then had dinner at Central Park’s basement 1 food court before proceeding over to Jupiter, the go go bar.

    Jupiter is now becoming my favourite go go bar due to their really good shows. They actually hired a show manager to choreograph dance numbers. Each of their dancers looked genuinely happy dancing and performing their number. Seeing handsome and muscular guys move and dance somewhat relaxes me, to which, I cannot explain how or why. 

    From my previous visit with BMM – Taeng Mo, I have been stalking Jupiter on their TikTok account and have decided that I wanted to bring a specific boy back to try. He is, to me, the hottest guy in Jupiter.

    When I entered Jupiter, I requested the manager to usher him to sit beside me. We exchanged introductions and his name is Win, from Myanmar. We had good conversations and I did eventually bring him out of the go go bar back to my hotel.

    As Win is a straight man, the interactions I had with him were pretty limited. I do not think that it was eventful enough for me to write something about him too. We ended up chatting more and the conversation flowed pretty well, as friends. He is definitely someone comfortable to hang out with, as a friend and not as a companion. If you are a lady and like muscular men with tattoos, Win will be the person for you. 

    30 April 2026

    Upon waking up, I proceeded to Saneh Jaan to have lunch with BMM – Ari and BMM – Yong. Saneh Jaan always has standard and consistency to their food. It was an amazing lunch. After lunch, I had an appointment at Jeyspa so it was time to head back to the hotel to prepare for it.

    BMM – Power Ranger also made an appointment at Jeyspa with me at the same time. We met outside Jeyspa and headed in together. Shortly after the welcome drink and cold towel was served, I saw my therapist Get and proceeded with him into the treatment room.

    Get is about 168cm and has a fair skin tone with good complexion. If you are very into blowing musical instruments, Get is awesome and good for you. If you like anything more, I will recommend you getting other boys from Jeyspa 🙂

    Dinner was with BMM – Ari and Power Ranger. After dinner, I joined BMM – Yong at Jupiter where we watched the show together. We could not see any boy we liked so we decided to adjourn to Big Boys Bar to take a look. Big Boys Bar is also the work place of one of BMM – Yong’s favourite boy.

    Big Boys Bar is the reincarnation of Atlas Bar. It has the same management, same show and same boys. If you miss Atlas bar, you can go to Big Boys Bar. 

    1 May 2026

    I started off the morning with lunch at one of my favourite restaurants, Kaithong. Kaithong serves a mean plate of fried flat rice noodles in super savoury, sweet gravy.

    With lunch completed, it was time for my first massage of the day. Steve at The Residence was waiting for me. Steve is very handsome and has a relatively lean body. His upper chest is more defined than his abs. I will be writing an in-depth review of him. Steve is highly recommended for beginners who are new to massage, or new to men for men massages.

    After Steve’s massage, I met up again with BMM – Ari, Power Ranger and Yong at Krungthong (our usual dinner destination) for an early dinner. This is as I have another massage lined up at The Residence. This time with Tana, a strong recommendation from readers of this blog.

    To be honest, I did not expect there to be even readers for my blog. I am pleasantly surprised that you took the effort to read this blog and reach out to me via emails and discord messages to recommend therapists to me. I am truly grateful that you have put in time and effort into reading my adventures and reaching out to me.

    Tana was great. Really great, but I would not recommend him for new-comers.

    BMM – Yong wanted to go to Jupiter for a last visit before going back to Kuala Lumpur so I accompanied him there. Here is a BMM tip for you. If you go to Go Go bars, do make friends with one floor manager. He will be there for you when you choose the boys as the first filter. My floor manager filtered a few boys out for me, telling me that they either went for ladies only, or had very bad reviews with gentlemen.

    BMM – Yong and I left Jupiter without a companion and we decided to go to Dream Boys to take a sneak peak before going back to our respective hotels. Unexpectedly, or expectedly, we both left Dream Boys with a companion. We took a nice Taco Bell supper and headed back to our hotels to rest. 

    2 May 2026

    Today was the day that BMM – Yong had to return to Kuala Lumpur. He deposited his bags in my room, then we went to Bartel’s for brunch with BMM – Power Ranger. Food at Bartel’s never disappoints. They are always so good.

    We did some last minute shopping at Big C and it was time for BMM – Yong to retrieve his bags in my room and head to Don Muaeng International Airport. I rested in my hotel room for a while before heading over to Klover, to meet one of my top 3 therapists in Bangkok, Benten.

    Benten recognised me from my tattoo and mentioned to me that I last visited him one to two months ago. I was pleasantly surprised that he remembered me. Yet, for this massage session with Benten, it was more therapeutic than sensual. Do not get me wrong, I do not mind a therapeutic massage, I just thought that with Benten, it would be more sensual.

    He still maintains his top 3 position in my ranking. 🙂

    Dinner was with BMM – Power Ranger at Kam’s Roast. We also had coffee after that. We adjourned to our individual hotel rooms to meet up with the boys we have made appointments with. My appointment was with Sky, a former 9teen therapist that is now working freelance. I went into this appointment without any expectation as I have never met Sky before. I was right. I should not have any expectations as it was relatively disappointing. 

    After saying goodbye to him, I decided that my last night in Bangkok should not end up in disappointment. I dropped by Dream Boys to check if 105 was available. 105 has always been on my radar for some time and lo and behold, he was available. I asked him to change clothes and return with me to my hotel room.

    We had supper and I played music with his clarinet. He enjoyed my musical performance. 

    3 May 2026

    With that, my final day has arrived in Bangkok. I always save a spicy meal for my last meal in Bangkok and for this trip, it’ll be Fa Pla Tahn. Their tom yam noodle soup is really delicious. Most of my friends that tried it said that the palette is very foreigner friendly. Feel free to try it if you are able to eat spicy food. Do ask for less spicy, as our spice tolerance level is significantly lower than our Thai peers.

    I will be writing only an in-depth review of Steve for this trip, as I have already covered Son and Benten previously. For the new boys that I did not write about, it is either that they are too uneventful, or that it is too wild to be written for this blog. 

    I seek your understanding in needing to maintain a grey area, as the industry itself is in a grey area. 

    As usual, if you have any questions, or have things to share with me, feel free to reach out to me via email or a Discord message.

    See you around! 

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