Hello everyone, I (BMM – Sawng) went to Bangkok from 8 to 12 August, taking advantage of the long weekend in Singapore to rest in Bangkok. I was joined by BMM – Ari for the full duration, while BMM – Taeng Mo joined from 9 to 12 August. BMM – Power Ranger felt FOMO and made an impromptu decision to join us from 8 to 10 August.
The places I visited on this trip are,
- Dream Boys,
- The Residences at Sala Daeng, and
- Olivia Massage.
For this trip, I have intentionally reduced the number of places to visit while increasing the frequency to the shops listed above.
The therapists and boys that I have engaged on this trip are,
- Dave (The Residences at Sala Daeng),
- Khun New Boy (Dream Boys)
- Khun C (freelancer),
- Lica (The Residences at Sala Daeng), and
- Sejun (The Residences at Sala Daeng).
Prior to departure, I shortlisted the following therapists from The Residences,
- Dave,
- Lica,
- Sejun,
- Arco, and
- Captain.
My priority was Captain -> Sejun -> Dave -> Lica -> Arco. Captain was first as he had the most limited slots, followed by Sejun. Dave, Lica and Arco had more slots than the former 2 which made booking for them much easier.
Once I confirmed with The Residences LINE admin that Captain was not working on the dates that I was there, I immediately asked for Sejun’s availability. I needed to know what the magic Sejun had which led to him being constantly fully booked. Thankfully, I managed to secure a slot with him.
Dave and Arco were recommended to me by my readers while Lica was someone whom I thought was really cute and wanted to try him out. I picked Dave over Arco for this trip as Dave’s pictures were more captivating than Arco’s. I settled Dave’s booking then proceeded to book Lica’s slot.
8 August 2026
After clearing immigration and checking into my hotel, I had a quick shower and cleaned myself for my first massage appointment. I had scheduled to meet Dave (The Residences) at 4pm. At about 3:20pm, I booked a GrabBike and went over to The Residences.
As I was slightly early, I waited downstairs till it was about 3:45pm before heading upstairs to level 4. When Dave came out to greet me with the welcome drink, I sighed internally. Dave, being a blindbox, was not my type. Furthermore, I could tell from his face that he was no longer lean. The photographs of him being super lean featured in The Residences therapist photograph album must have been a little dated.
While the massage was on-going, it was quite comfortable and relaxing. I almost dozed off two to four times. That was how relaxing Dave’s massage was. However, when it came to the special, it was rather lacklustre. I could sense that I was not Dave’s type and Dave could probably sense that he was not my type either.
I will still be fair to Dave and write a review about him. It is just that, sometimes, chemistry between the therapist and the customer matters too. If you do not vibe with your therapist or your therapist does not vibe with you, the encounter you have may not be as eventful.
We are all humans. We all have preferences and a personality. This is why, for all my reviews and blog entries, I always specify that different people will encounter different levels of service received. It is just a very human thing. There is nothing good, bad, right, or wrong about it. It’s just how things are.
After this rather disappointing event, combined with the lack of appetite, I told BMM – Power Ranger that I just wanted to eat something simple around our hotels and we settled for Japanese curry rice and McDonalds. Yes, we had 2 meals back-to-back.
We rested a while in our individual hotels after our meal, freshened up and went over to meet BMM – Ari at Dream Boys. For today, all three of us have made arrangements. BMM – Power Ranger and I have pre-booked our boys at Dream Boys while BMM – Ari opted to import a boy from Moonlight to Dream Boys.
We opened a bottle of Malibu (I like rum) for myself and BMM – Power Ranger, while BMM – Ari finished his remaining bottle of whiskey with his boy. We interacted with our boys, with each other and partied the night away. Soon, Dream Boys was about to close and we settled our bill, parted ways to our own hotel.
The boy I picked shall be nicknamed Khun New Boy, shortened to Khun NB. I am currently going to gatekeep his name and number as I really do enjoy my time with him. Till the day I get bored of him, or some tension arises between us, I will then reveal his identity.
Khun NB was someone I had my sights on since my June trip. During then, I saw him and was like, DAMN, he is totally my type. When I wanted to signal him to come down to sit with me, another manager beat me to it. He ended up going off with that customer and not returning. I was a little disappointed. Fate then had it that I managed to get acquainted with him during that trip. Yet, I did not manage to bring him back to my hotel room due to me not feeling up to it in June.
On my July trip, I texted him to meet him, but he mentioned that he had to return to his hometown to visit his family. We then decided that it’ll be better that we meet up in August, which was this trip.
Finally, I managed to meet up with him and brought him back to my room. My nonchalance and reticent face did invoke many “are you okay?” from him and I had to assure him that I was feeling good with him. Because of this, there were many check-ins from him to ensure that I was alright. I guess I appreciated that. He was a professional. He wanted to make sure I was feeling comfortable and at ease around him. I was.
While his oar was not particularly large as compared to other boys, he definitely had the technique nailed down. He could rag doll me, which was something I am quite fond of.
With some alcohol in his system, he was not able to sustain his hardness to reach his destination. We decided to row our oars and sail in our boat individually to reach our destination. Despite all these, I genuinely enjoyed his company and liked the way he and I communicated with each other.
Him not being able to reach his destination while rowing my boat did get to him. I told him that I was going to Dream Boys the next day. He asked if I would pick him again, I said I would. He then replied that it was okay if I did not, cause his performance today was not up to par. I reassured him that such things are common and acceptable to me. He made me promise to him that I would pick him tomorrow at Dream Boys and I made a pinky promise with him.
He acknowledged my promise with him and he went back home.
9 August 2026
BMM – Ari has a favourite restaurant, Saneh Jaan. He requested BMM – Power Ranger and I to meet up with him for lunch. Knowing that we are super casual dressed down folks, BMM – Ari reminded us to dress up for the Michelin starred restaurant. We did and we enjoyed our meal.
The reason why we would return to Dream Boys again tonight after last night’s adventure was because BMM – Taeng Mo was arriving and he wanted to meet his boy at Dream Boys.
With such a huge gap between lunch and meeting them at Dream Boys at 10pm, I already made plans with Khun C to meet up with him. Khun C has been a fabulous sailor with his huge oar. We met up at my hotel and he rowed my boat. We both were exhausted after that and we took a nap. The nap superseded our plans to go to an onsen together to relax.
I was glad that Khun C managed to relax too, as he is not someone in the industry. He has a normal day to day job which is quite mentally and physically demanding on him. This is why I suggested we go to an onsen together.
I did initially want to bring Khun C to Nobu Bangkok, but he was a little undressed despite me telling him to dress up. I then canceled the reservation and decided to go to Mo Mo Paradise instead. Oh boy, Mo Mo Paradise is delicious and the food quality is very good at its price point. I dare say, it beats Haidilao, being similar in concept.
After eating, we bade farewell to each other and I made my way over to Dream Boys to find Khun NB.
When I reached Dream Boys, I could not see Khun NB at all. I was a little puzzled as we did make a promise to each other. I texted him to tell him I had arrived at Dream Boys and asked where he was. He told me that he was outside of the shop and will be returning to the shop to see me.
Turns out, when he arrived at work at about 9pm, he did not see me. He assumed that I was not going to be there and he was afraid of texting me. He was not confident that I would keep my promise. As it happened, another customer wanted to bring him out and he accompanied the customer out. Upon finishing and seeing my text, he came back to the shop to accompany me. He apologised to me and explained the situation.
I was okay with his explanation and did not pursue any further. It did not bother me that I was going to be the second boat he was with today, because deep down, I knew that for today, I was going to row his boat. With him expressing that he could either be the sailor or the boat, I wanted to try to be his sailor for the night.
After he reached my room, I expressed interest in sailing his boat. He was a little apprehensive at first and told me that he was not very good at it. I told him that it was okay and we shall see how far we can sail together in his boat.
As expected, he tried his best to fulfil his role but he tapped out. I guess he just did not have much experience being rowed. I was just a little disappointed, but not too much as I just wanted to see how far I can go with him.
We then laid on the bed together, chatted with each other and enjoyed each other’s company. Soon, I felt sleepy and told him that for tomorrow, I had plans at night which meant that I could not meet him at Dream Boys. I told him that I will be looking for him the day after tomorrow and he agreed.
This time, I made sure to specify to him that I would be there to meet him. No more confusions or ungrounded insecurities. He fully understood and we parted ways.
10 August 2026
After waking up, I rummaged through my luggage and saw the gifts I bought for Khun C still in my luggage. Oh god. I texted Khun C to let him know that his gifts from Singapore were still with me. We made arrangements to meet up the next day. It was a little sad for me to see that I had forgotten the gifts, as I wanted to have dinner with Khun NB tomorrow instead. Nonetheless, giving Khun C the souvenirs from Singapore was more important.
BMM – Taeng Mo texted me to let me know that he was awake and we proceeded to McDonalds for brunch. We chatted a little then I went back to my hotel to prepare for my massage appointment with Lica (The Residences).
Lica, as compared to Dave, is two totally different experiences. The chemistry between Lica and I was great. Lica is about 170cm to 175cm tall, with fair complexion. The massage was good and we had body to body massage. I will detail an in-depth review of Lica later on.
Having spare time before my dinner, I decided to go to Olivia Massage for a 90 minute leg massage. I always do a 90 minute leg massage as I feel like 30 minutes or even 60 minutes is too short. For leg massages at most massage shops, you are generally unable to select your own therapist. Though, you may verbalise your preference for a male or female staff. The staff are rostered to ensure that everyone has a fair share of work.
For this massage session, my therapist was not as good as compared to my previous therapist. There were just many little misses that compounded up to a slightly not-so-satisfying experience. Perhaps I could verbalise my suggestions for him to optimise the massage experience for me. But, I am just sometimes too passive for all these suggestions. Hopefully, my next session with Olivia will be better.
I then headed over to Siam Discovery for our must-eat restaurant of the trip, Kungthong Seafood Restaurant. BMM – Ari, BMM – Taeng Mo and his boy and our mutual Thai language classmate joined me for dinner. My Thai language classmate told me that prior to meeting us, he engaged Nigel (The Residences) for a massage session and it was a great experience. I will try to make an appointment with Nigel for my next trip.
My Thai language classmate always wanted to experience how we BMM members experience Bangkok, so he requested us to bring him to a Go Go bar. In my opinion, Jupiter does have the best performances as compared to the other Go Go bars, so we went over.
Mondays are generally the least busy day of the week for Go Go bars and the amount of customers reflects that. There were only a few other people at the bar. The boys were few too, with less than 20 of them available, out of which, only 2 were gays.
It was a very disappointing experience for me as I am inclined to interact with gay boys more than straight boys. Do not get me wrong, some straight boys are able to deliver. They can interact with as much, or even more, passion as compared to gay boys. But, in my limited experience with straight boys, they usually pale in comparison.
With me at Jupiter was BMM – Ari and my classmate. BMM – Taeng Mo was supposed to be present with his boy but they fell asleep upon arriving back at their hotel to freshen up.
Halfway through the show at Jupiter, I felt kind of uncomfortable. The boys were not to my liking and the show was not relaxing me. I wanted to go elsewhere, I wanted to go somewhere familiar. So I decided to ditch my friends and told them that I would be going to Dream Boys. At this point, I was not sure if Khun NB was working. He was working for the past few days and perhaps he could take a break today from work.
Upon entering Dream Boys, I seeked out the managers that usually serve me. I told them that I was going to just grab a quick beer or two and did not need the booth seats. After sitting down, Khun NB appeared before me and asked if he could sit beside me. How could I say no? I asked him to sit beside me and bought him a drink. I told him for today, I was not feeling it and I would not be bringing him back.
I assured him that I would do so the next day and we spent some time at Dream Boys together. As Dream Boys was closing, I tipped him and we said our goodbyes. I told him that I was going to eat with BMM – Taeng Mo and his boy. After meeting up with BMM – Taeng Mo and his boy, I received a text from Khun NB asking if he could join us for the meal. I agreed.
We met again at Silom Edge, chatted amongst ourselves while I downed two small bowls of noodles. For Khun NB, it was 3 bowls of small noodles and one plate of rice with charsiew. He was hungry. I was happy that he texted me to join me, as that meant that his tummy was full for the night.
Khun NB sent me back home on his motorcycle. During the trip back, he motioned for my hands and asked to place my hands on his waist. He always had all these small little actions which made me feel comfortable around him. We kissed goodbye and I went back to my room to sleep.
11 August 2026
Upon waking up, I decided to go to Kaithong at the Central Embassy for lunch, solo. BMM – Taeng Mo woke up and wanted to join me so I asked him to come along. We ordered my favourite garlic pork, mushroom kailan and stir fried noodles.
The food at Kaithong is really good. I always enjoy eating there. I could not order more dishes as I had a massage appointment with the always fully booked Sejun (The Residences). We took the BTS back to our hotels and I prepared myself for the massage.
Upon arrival at The Residences, I was pleasantly surprised by Sejun’s look. BMM – Taeng Mo did a little snooping around and discovered that Sejun is not actually Korean, but Thai. Yet, with his appearances, he can certainly pass off as Korean. Sejun, being his work name, is a very smart choice. He was very Korean looking, very handsome, as if he was from a K-Pop idol group. Based on looks alone, I can understand why Sejun is so popular.
What helps Sejun to be even more popular is that his body is very lean and muscular too. He had the complete package of looks and physique. His massage was not the best, but definitely above average. I will be writing a separate review entry on my massage experience with him so stay tuned for it.
Sejun is definitely worth the advance reservation and trying out once.
After my massage, I went over to Siam Paragon to shop for groceries on behalf of my mother. After shopping, Khun C met up with me and we chatted about life. He will soon depart for another province for work, only returning to Bangkok on the weekends. I encouraged him to pursue his career. Deep down, I know, my time with Khun C will be limited and I should cherish all moments with him.
BMM – Ari, BMM – Taeng Mo and his boy joined Khun C and I for dinner. I had to introduce them to Mo Mo Paradise and they all agreed that Mo Mo Paradise was delicious and should become one of our staple restaurants in Bangkok.
Khun C sent me back to my hotel to retrieve his Singapore souvenirs. I asked if he wanted to row my boat, but he politely declined. He cited the lateness as the primary reason as he had to go to work early the next day. Khun C did not have private transportation around Bangkok, so he had to travel home via the BTS and MRT system, which would have taken him about 90 minutes to reach home. I respected his decision and bade farewell to him.
I then proceeded to take a quick shower to freshen up and take a GrabBike to Dream Boys. Usually I will take the BTS and walk over, but it was getting real late. We were supposed to be at Dream Boys at 10pm, but by the time Khun C left me, it was 10pm too. I had to try to be there as soon as possible as our Thai language classmate wanted to join us at Dream Boys.
After entering Dream Boys, I saw Khun NB on stage and waved hi to him. He smiled back and I motioned to him to join me at the booth seats. He immediately stepped off the stage to join me. Remembering that some alcohol would cause him to not be able to sustain his rowing, I politely requested him to drink non-alcoholic drinks.
Halfway through, perhaps due to his job requiring to consume some of the client’s alcohol, he requested the manager to add some alcohol to his drink. He assured me that he was still able to deliver me to my destination with a cheeky grin. I allowed him to do so.
We spent the remaining time at Dream Boys with fun, joy and laughter. Very soon, Dream Boys was about to close and we parted ways with BMM – Taeng Mo and BMM – Ari.
Upon reaching my hotel room, I told him that I was not feeling up to any action tonight. I just wanted to be beside him, cuddle him and enjoy the time with him. We chatted while we cuddled in nude.
It was such a comfortable experience and the amount of emotional value he brought with the companionship was indescribable. He then suggested if we could meet tomorrow before I fly, perhaps for lunch.
I thought about it and agreed. I texted BMM – Taeng Mo to tell him to bring Taeng Mo’s boy and himself to meet Khun NB and I for lunch the next day.
I then struggled with a decision. To allow him to sleepover or to sleep alone. On one hand, I did not want to see him travel 40 minutes back home, sleep, then wake up and travel another 40 minutes to meet me again. On the other hand, I am someone who really enjoys personal, alone time before bedtime.
Despite all the good feelings that he gave me, I decided to stick to prioritising myself first. I apologised to him that I could not allow him to stay over as I really needed my solo time before sleeping. I told him that even in Singapore, I needed it. He understood. After he left, he texted me to reassure me that he understood and told me that I need not feel bad about sending him home. He’s such a great lad.
I had a good night’s rest and by the time I woke up, he already texted me that he was on his way to meeting me.
12 August 2026
BMM – Taeng Mo and I had the same flight back to Singapore. He decided to come over to my hotel to deposit his bags as we were sharing the same airport transfer to Suvarnabhumi Airport.
With Khun NB’s text telling me he reached Dusit Central Park, I was a little caught off-guard. We did not really explicitly state the meeting venue. He perceived it to be meeting at the mall where we would have our lunch, while I perceived it to be my hotel where he would pick me up.
This is what happens when you do not communicate clearly. I told him to stay there and I proceeded to check out. I ordered a GrabBike and within 5 minutes, I was at Dusit Central Park. We met up and went to eat together.
Throughout the meal, our knees were in constant contact with each other. Even though it gradually became sweaty, I still refused to remove the skin-to-skin contact with him. Occasionally through the meal, I would stroke his sexy legs and smile at him. He appreciated the sweet gestures and would make a cute face back at me.
No trip can end without a Thai Tea Bingsu. I suggested to everyone that we headed over to Silom Complex to, well, watch me eat a Thai Tea Bingsu and everyone agreed. After placing our orders at After You, I sat beside Khun NB and our knees continued to be in contact with each other.
While we did not talk much to each other as I was eating the Bingsu, I was happy.
It soon came time for us to head back to my hotel for my airport transfer. As the drizzle earlier stopped, both BMM – Taeng Mo’s boy and Khun NB offered to send us back on their motorcycles. We walked back to Dusit Central Park to collect the motorcycle and proceeded to the exit of the mall.
Nearing the exit of the mall, we saw that it was raining. I whispered to his ear, “it’s okay, let’s go together to my hotel on your motorcycle.” He nodded his head. Upon exiting the mall, there was a short distance between the mall and the nearest shelter. We were hindered by a pick-up truck ahead of us which led to both him and I being caught in the rain. This hindrance builds up some annoyance in both of us. He then muttered something a bit loudly under his breath while we took shelter.
I understood his annoyance as he saw that I was pretty wet. He offered me his rain-jacket and I assured him that I had a change of clothes and he needed it more. He smiled and put on his rain-jacket. We then continued on our way to the hotel.
After dropping me off, he texted me an apology, saying that the pick-up truck hindrance caused him to be annoyed, which explained his louder voice and more direct tone when he spoke to me. To be honest, I was not expecting the apology. To me, that was normal human behaviour. Him apologising just made me realise how thoughtful he was. He wanted me to have a good impression of him, which I did.
As I reached the airport, I reviewed in my mind of my interaction with him, being in person or through text. I realised that he is not much of a texter. Even when we are together, he rarely texts people, except for his family. Personally, I quite enjoy people who are not much of a texter as I am someone who is not a frequent texter as well. I often tell people, I will see and read your message, but I will only reply when I am free and available to do so. So, him not being a frequent texter suits my texting style too.
It has only been one or two days since I have returned from Bangkok and the texts between him and I are countable with 2 hands. I appreciate that as we both have lives outside of each other. Till my next trip, I will maintain some text based distance with him, if that makes sense.
My next trip is in November. It will be about 11 weeks till my next trip. If I am unable to tolerate this huge gap, I may make an impromptu trip in September or October.
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Till the next blog entry.
xx
BMM – Sawng